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    TUSCON, Arizona (KNXV) — Suzanne Sierra never heard of kratom before her 28-year-old son Christopher started buying small bottles of it from a smoke shop.

At first, he was taking it just to feel better. Then he needed it just to function. Within two years, Christopher was spending nearly $1,000 a day on the product, and had lost his job, his girlfriend, and his home.

“He shakes, he shakes really bad,” Sierra said. “He’s 28, and his whole life is ahead of him, and it destroyed it. For something that was called Feel Free.”

A Surge in Poisonings

Calls to poison centers about kratom have surged more than 1,200% over the past decade, according to a new CDC study. Last year alone, there were more than 3,400 reports of kratom poisoning across the country. Symptoms can range from vomiting and high blood pressure to seizures and hallucinations.

Kratom, pronounced KRAY-tom, is a psychoactive herb derived from a tropical tree native to Southeast Asia. In the United States, it is sold openly at gas stations and smoke shops in pill, powder, and liquid extract form. It is currently unregulated at the federal level, meaning there are no standard doses and no oversight of what goes into the products on shelves.

ABC15 found a Facebook group for people recovering from kratom addiction and met Ryan Wood of West Tennessee. He says he picked up kratom at a gas station five years ago thinking it was just another energy drink.

“I just ran across it, you know, I like energy drinks and stuff like that and just thought it was another pick me up,” Wood said.

Within one to two years, Wood was taking up to 100 pills a day. He has been to rehab three times. He says withdrawal was the hardest thing he has ever been through, including hallucinations, violent body tremors, and multiple emergency room visits that triggered pancreatitis.

“It’s very unsafe, it’s very unhealthy, and yes, people are losing their lives,” Wood said.

The Other Side

Not everyone believes kratom should be banned.

Fadi Fod is the owner of Kawana, an alcohol-free bar and cafe in the Valley that serves botanical beverages made with kratom. He says the problem is not kratom itself, but the synthetic, lab-made products that are often grouped with it, like a form known as 7-hydroxy.

“Please do not mix natural leaf kratom with other synthetic products like 7 hydroxy,” Fod said. “This is a natural leaf that grows naturally in nature, where this is synthetically made in a lab, synthesized by a human.”

Fod says at Kawana, every drink is carefully measured by portion and customers are educated before they order.

“Here at Kawana we work at education, not just selling, informing the customers the difference between the kratom leaves, and each cup of our drinks is measured per portion, so we know how much kratom, so it’s not being over poured,” Fod said.

The Push to Regulate

Arizona Attorney General Kris Mayes has said she plans to work with legislators to strengthen laws against kratom and similar products. It is currently illegal to sell kratom to anyone under the age of 18 in Arizona.

Tennessee banned all kratom products as of July 1. Wood says the rest of the country should follow.

“I think it needs to be banned all across the United States,” Wood said.

Sierra, who started a Facebook group for families affected by kratom, says she has heard from countless people with stories just like her son’s. She says she went to every store in her town that sold the product and asked them not to sell it to Christopher.

“I didn’t know what else to do,” she said.

Christopher is now living back home with his mother. Sierra says he still struggles every day.

“He doesn’t feel like he has any hope,” she said.

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‘There is freedom’: Why Asian women are leaving their husbands in their 50s and 60s

(CNN) — Eiko Toyama had waited 32 years to leave her husband.Throughout their marriage, she said, she did all the housework and childcare in their Japan home, as well as supporting the family financially. Her husband “wanted to control everything,” from her social life to professional ambitions, leaving her feeling trapped and miserable. Still, she stuck it out for their two children.That finally changed when she turned 60. Her adult sons no longer needed her, and her husband was healthy – not yet so old that he needed a caretaker. It was a precious window of opportunity, and she took it.“I was nothing but happy (after the divorce). That was my only emotion,” she said. “I was so happy I wanted to run around all over the place.”Stories like hers are increasingly common around the world as the number of “gray divorces” – splits among couples aged 50 and older – rises each year. The trend has been seen in countries like the United States and elsewhere, but takes on particular significance in Asia, where people generally live longer.Many places like South Korea, Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan and mainland China are battling demographic crises as birth rates fall and elderly populations swell.The surge in gray divorces is also often driven by women – who have long faced restrictive gender norms in conservative Asian societies, as well as legal, financial, and social barriers to seeking divorce. That’s now changing; in Japan, for instance, among couples splitting after decades of marriage, twice as many women as men filed for divorce in 2024.This could reshape what Asia’s elderly population looks like in the coming decade: more people living alone and requiring more welfare support, as experts have predicted — but also perhaps more empowered to step out on their own.For women like Toyama, growing up in the 1960s and ‘70s, divorce was uncommon – and often met with judgment and shame.Back then, if you were a woman, “getting divorced was kind of like the end of life,” said Sangyoub Park, an associate professor of sociology at Washburn University in Kansas, who wrote a 2023 paper on late-life divorces in South Korea.That began changing in the second half of the 20th century as more women joined the workforce and pursued higher education. Gray divorces have risen steadily – particularly as Gen X began entering its 50s in the past decade, Park said.That’s an important demographic: born between 1965 and 1980, Gen X was the first generation to grow up in a globalizing Asia, watching American TV and movies. Through pop culture, they also absorbed American values such as prioritizing “personal choices rather than family obligation,” which – alongside those broader economic factors – helped gradually shift attitudes toward divorce, Park said.That’s reflected in data around the region. In South Korea last year, the number of divorces among couples who had been married at least 30 years surpassed divorces among younger couples who were married less than five years – for the first time ever.Taiwan has also seen divorces increase among long-married couples, according to government data. In Hong Kong, multiple law firms have described a surge in gray divorces, and in mainland China, the number of elderly divorces has doubled in the past 30 years.Part of this may be demographic: an aging society has a bigger pool of older people, so it’ll have more older divorces too. Young people are getting married less these days, so their divorces are also fewer.But legal reforms have also made a huge difference, creating safety nets for women who previously had to depend on their husbands’ livelihoods.For instance, South Korea ruled in 2014 that future pensions and severance pay could be included in the division of assets. That means if a housewife handled all the housework and childcare during their marriage, thus allowing her husband to work, she’s entitled to part of his elderly pension after getting divorced. Japan introduced a similar reform in 2007.These measures are especially critical given the high rate of elderly poverty in Asia. Among OECD nations, South Korea has the highest poverty rate for people over 65; Hong Kong (not an OECD member) is similarly high. While Japan ranks slightly lower, it’s still above the global average.And deep gender inequality still persists, despite these reforms.“For women in particular, the main reason they can’t get a divorce is the inability to be financially independent,” said Toyama, pointing to lower wages for women in Japan. “Once a woman becomes a full-time homemaker, it’s very hard to leave her husband and become independent.”“My two children are boys, but if I had a daughter, I would constantly tell her, ‘No matter what happens, never quit your job,’” she added.The biggest common factor across Asia is longevity, Park said – and how people are thinking differently about the final part of their lives.“Having an extra 20, 30 years creates new expectations,” with people more “willing to walk away from an unhappy, unfulfilled marriage,” he said. Divorce “is not a failure anymore – rather, it’s something new. It’s the beginning of a new chapter.”Iman Lau, 50, experienced this rebirth firsthand. Growing up in Hong Kong, her expectations for marriage were less than inspiring: spouses eat together, do activities together, and share blandly peaceful lives, she thought. “This is just how marriage is.”That mentality stayed even through years of infidelity by her husband. She would wonder: had she done something wrong, was she not good enough? He was ultimately the one to initiate the divorce despite her pleas to stay together; he even compared her to a bird who refused to fly out of an open cage.“I’m a pretty traditional woman,” she said. “In my whole life, I never thought I would get divorced.”It was a shock, as if she’d lost a limb or an organ. But it also made her realize that somewhere in that 14-year marriage, she’d lost her sense of self, neglecting her friends and interests to simply “orbit around him,” she said.She vowed to change that this year after finalizing the divorce, and threw herself into the world with determined vigor. She joined online meetup groups and made new friends. She discovered a love for the outdoors, going hiking, swimming, kayaking and snorkeling. She’s learning to play the piano and loves jazz.After traveling across Europe, she printed and hung up holiday photos in her apartment; it’s her “happy wall,” to remind her of the joy she found trekking across Sicily and camping in Georgia.“I didn’t know that life by yourself could be so spectacular,” she said.Toyama has embarked on a similar journey, describing herself as “full of life” at 63.She began livestreaming on TikTok, and created an account on a messaging app to dole out advice to people who call and text each week. She’s working to launch new business ventures including a marriage agency and a live events company.“For 32 years, I couldn’t do anything, but now I’m finally in my third year of being able to do whatever I want,” she said. The process wasn’t easy, but any challenges now are still “much better than the anxiety of being with my ex-husband,” she said. “Above all, there is freedom.”Both women described noticing an evolution in people’s attitudes when they shared news of their divorce. For Toyama, the reactions were overwhelmingly positive, with some even expressing envy. For Lau, they were more split – and in revealing ways.“Friends around my age treat it like a taboo, like you’ve had a death in the family – they don’t dare to ask about it, they’ll just say, ‘I’m so sorry,’” she said. “But with young Gen Z people, everybody congratulates me.”The increase in gray divorces might start to plateau when millennials – who got married under very different circumstances and social attitudes than their predecessors – start aging into retirement, said Park. But that’s not for another decade or so, and separations will likely continue rising until then.For those future divorcees, Lau has some encouragement from the other side. “Actually, this world is extraordinary,” she said.“Asians in particular often think divorce is like a stain or taboo in your life, like a label of failure. But that’s not true,” she added. “Just think of it as giving yourself the chance to see that you can have an even more vibrant life – as long as you’re willing to take that step.”The-CNN-Wire™ & © 2026 Cable News Network, Inc., a Warner Bros. Discovery Company. All rights reserved.
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