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What to Expect at Your First Prenatal Appointment

At her first prenatal appointment for her first pregnancy, Shana Westlake of Beacon, New York, remembers entering her OB-GYN’s office full of anxiety.

“They took my blood pressure, and it was through the roof,” Westlake says.

She wondered whether her high blood pressure was cause for alarm. Thankfully, as it turned out, everything was fine.

“The nurse patted me on the arm and said we’d check again at the end of the appointment,” Westlake says. “After an ultrasound to confirm there was a baby in there and listening to the strong heartbeat, they checked my blood pressure again. It had dropped back down to a normal, healthy range.”

Her experience is not unique or uncommon. Navigating pregnancy can be an overwhelming process overall, but that first prenatal appointment can be particularly daunting.

Here’s what you can expect at your first prenatal appointment and important questions to ask your OB.

What Is a Prenatal Visit?

Prenatal visits are a critical part of ensuring a healthy pregnancy for you and baby. It allows your obstetrician to monitor the progress of your pregnancy and your baby’s development.

Your first prenatal visit is often the most comprehensive visit to help you prepare for the rest of your pregnancy journey.

You should schedule your first prenatal appointment as soon as you find out you’re pregnant.

The initial visit usually involves:

A physical exam. Your doctor will check your vital signs (including blood pressure, heart rate and temperature), measure your height and weight and assess your heart, lungs, breasts and abdomen. They will also perform a pelvic exam.

Lab tests. You will be asked to provide a blood and urine sample to confirm the pregnancy and check for illnesses, infections (including sexually transmitted infections), hormone levels and blood type.

Review of medical history. Your doctor will go over your medical history, including your last menstrual cycle, past pregnancies, personal and family medical history, allergies, medications and lifestyle habits.

An ultrasound. Depending on the practice, you may have an ultrasound done to measure the embryo’s size, check the heartbeat and estimate a due date.

[READ: 7 Ways to Make Your Childbirth Easier]

How to Prepare for Your Initial Visit

You’ll have a lot of information to go over during your first prenatal visit, so it’ll be helpful to come prepared with the following:

— Personal medical history, including menstrual and obstetric-gynecological history, mental health conditions, previous surgeries and illnesses

Family medical history, including your partner’s and their family

— Allergies

— Supplements and medications

In addition, it’s important to be equipped with key questions.

“To ensure a healthy pregnancy, women should ask about physical and emotional changes during pregnancy,” says Dr. Brian Rodriguez-Echevarria, an OB-GYN with UTHealth Houston.

Here are 12 questions to ask your OB at your first appointment.

[SEE: What to Pack in Your Hospital Bag When You’re Expecting.]

1. What Pregnancy Symptoms Are Normal, and Which Aren’t?

It’s crucial to ask your doctor which symptoms are just normal discomforts due to physiological changes in the body, which ones require a doctor’s visit within a few days and which could indicate serious complications and warrant immediate care at an ER or urgent care center, says Dr. Aparna Sridhar, an OB-GYN at UCLA Health and associate clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA.

Ask if there is a nurse’s line or another number to reach out if you’re experiencing unusual symptoms, and let your doctor know of any unexpected changes, Rodriguez-Echevarria says. If you’re not sure what’s going on, it’s always best to err on the side of caution and call.

Normal pregnancy symptoms, like morning sickness, include:

— Nausea

— Vomiting

— Fatigue

Concerning symptoms include:

— Vaginal bleeding

Urinary tract infection symptoms, like burning when urinating

— Leaking of fluid, which might indicate water breaking early

— Unexplained fever, which could indicate an infection

— Chest pain or shortness of breath

— Leg swelling with redness and warmth, especially on one side, which could indicate a blood clot

— Decreased fetal movement

— Painful contractions or intense stomach pain

— Severe headache or vision problems, which might indicate preeclampsia

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2. What Activities Can I Do During Pregnancy, and Which Should I Avoid?

Most activities can be continued during pregnancy, says Dr. Myra J. Wick, a specialist in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology and the Department of Medical Genetics at Mayo Clinic, and author of “Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy.”

However, people with pregnancy complications — such as placental abnormalities — may need to modify their activities.

Ask questions about what you can or can’t do, such as:

Exercise

In general, exercise during pregnancy is encouraged, but pregnant people should ask about activities that may increase the risk for falls or injury, such as contact sports, skiing, rollerblading and rock climbing, as any significant fall or trauma to the abdomen could result in placental abruption or significant injury.

Only your provider can assess your personal and family medical history to offer individualized guidance on exercise tailored to your situation.

“Relying on the internet for advice is not always ideal, as it cannot provide personalized recommendations based on your unique health circumstances,” Sridhar says.

Hobbies

You should inquire about whether or not your hobbies are safe, especially if they include working with toxic materials, to make sure that there is no risk of exposure to harmful substances.

These activities might include:

— Furniture restoration

— Painting

— Home improvement

— Ceramics

Travel

Travel during pregnancy is generally safe for most women until they get close to their due dates.

“It’s good to discuss the optimal time to travel, usually between 14 and 28 weeks, and if there are any contraindications based on personal health factors,” Sridhar says.

For international travel, ask if your plans include areas where the Zika virus is present, which is primarily spread by mosquitoes and can cause birth defects if a pregnant woman contracts it. Also, make sure your vaccinations are up to date.

“I always recommend they carry a copy of their health records and be aware of symptoms that require immediate medical attention, such as vaginal bleeding or severe abdominal pain,” Sridhar says.

During travel, Sridhar says to:

Stay hydrated

— Wear loose-fitting clothing

— Take regular breaks to move around to prevent blood clots, also referred to as deep vein thrombosis

Sex

Sex is generally safe during pregnancy, but keep in mind that your comfort level and desire may vary as your baby grows and your body adjusts. Be sure to ask your doctor about safe sexual activities during pregnancy, especially if you have certain conditions, such as vaginal bleeding, cervical incompetence, placenta previa (in which the placenta covers the cervical opening) or a history of miscarriage or preterm labor.

“Open communication with your provider ensures safety and addresses any concerns,” Sridhar says.

3. What Foods And Drinks Are Safe And Unsafe?

What you can and can’t eat while pregnant can be a tricky issue.

“Cultural recommendations about what to eat or avoid may not always be supported by scientific evidence,” Sridhar says.

Healthy foods to eat during pregnancy include fresh fruits, vegetables, lean meats and whole grains.

But there are certain foods you should avoid, including:

— Uncooked or undercooked meat or fish, such as sushi

— Cold deli meats

— Unpasteurized dairy products, such as raw milk and cheeses

— Foods containing raw eggs, like dressings and sauces

— High-mercury fish, such as swordfish

Experts recommend avoiding alcohol and limiting your caffeine intake to 200 milligrams per day. If you typically drink a lot of caffeine, talk to your doctor about your consumption and safe alternatives to moderate your intake during pregnancy.

4. What Medicines and Supplements Can I Take?

It’s essential to discuss with your health care provider which medications you can take during pregnancy.

“A thorough review of any current medications is crucial to ensure they are safe and not harmful to fetal development,” Sridhar says.

The main dietary supplement you should take while pregnant is prenatal vitamins to ensure you and your baby are getting all the necessary nutrients for a healthy pregnancy.

“On most occasions, one daily prenatal vitamin will be the recommended dose, but there might be occasions in which your provider might recommend additional vitamins or supplements,” Rodriguez-Echevarria says.

While most over-the-counter vitamins are safe, including vitamin D, folic acid, iron, calcium, magnesium and fish oil, be sure to ask about any herbal supplements you’re taking. That’s because supplements are not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration and could possibly contain harmful ingredients.

5. How Much Weight Should I Gain?

Overall weight gain is an important topic to discuss with your doctor, but this question will have a very individualized answer.

“Weight gain will depend on pre-pregnancy (body mass index),” Wick says.

Although you’ll want to maintain a healthy weight, pregnant women shouldn’t go on a weight loss diet because your body will need all the nutrients it can get for the baby’s development.

6. What Can I Expect at My Appointments?

You’ll want to know what your appointment schedule is going to be like and if you’ll be seeing the same doctor, or rotating doctors, at each appointment. If the practice you go to has more than one OB-GYN, it’s a good idea to get to know them all so you’ll be familiar with whoever may be on call to deliver your baby.

“Ask about frequency of visits, and what is done at each visit,” Wick says.

How often you come in might depend on if your pregnancy is low or high risk.

“It’s important to discuss plans for monitoring both uncomplicated pregnancies and those complicated by maternal or neonatal medical conditions,” Sridhar says.

Even if you’re low risk now, it’s always possible complications could develop, requiring more frequent visits and a maternal-fetal medicine doctor, a type of specialized provider within obstetrics.

7. What Screening Tests Will I Have?

You’ll also want to ask what tests and procedures are done and when, such as ultrasounds. Several screening tests should happen at specific points in pregnancy, so you’ll want to make sure you know when you’re supposed to schedule them.

Also, you can ask what additional tests, such as genetic testing, may be available to you and when it would be appropriate to have them done.

Typical tests during pregnancy include:

Blood test. Blood tests to check for diseases and other problems, usually done early in pregnancy around 8 to 14 weeks.

Ultrasound. An initial ultrasound to measure the size of the embryo, thereby estimating your due date. This is also done around 8 weeks.

NT scan. A nuchal translucency (NT) scan and/or blood tests to assess the risk of genetic abnormalities. This is done around 12 weeks.

Anatomy scan. An anatomy scan checks the measurements and growth of the fetus, amniotic fluid levels, placenta and length of cervix. It is performed at 18 to 20 weeks of pregnancy.

Glucose test. Glucose screening, which measures the amount of sugar in your blood to see if you’re at risk for gestational diabetes. It’s done between 24 and 28 weeks.

Group B strep test. Group B strep (GBS) test, which is a swab of the vaginal and rectal areas to test for this bacteria. If GBS is present, antibiotics will be needed during labor and delivery.

8. What Vaccines Should I Have During Pregnancy?

Another crucial topic is vaccines during pregnancy, including which are recommended and when you should get them.

The vaccines you’d receive during pregnancy are not harmful to you or your baby.

The four main vaccines are:

RSV

— Tetanus, diphtheria and pertussis (Tdap)

COVID-19

Flu

Additional vaccines — such as those for hepatitis A and hepatitis B — may be recommended by your doctor if you are at risk for infection or aren’t up to date on your vaccinations.

9. What Will Be the Plan for Delivery?

You might not know exactly what detailed questions to ask about the delivery if this is your first pregnancy, and that’s OK. While it might seem a little early, it’s best to talk about it now.

“Asking those questions early on in pregnancy can help relieve the stress that comes with the unknown at the time of delivery,” Rodriguez-Echevarria says.

Plus, having a discussion now about delivery expectations can make childbirth easier. You’ll want to make sure your doctor’s views line up with your own.

One major question to ask is how you’ll know what doctor will be delivering your baby. Often, you’ll end up with whatever doctor is on call when you give birth, which can be a little unnerving.

“The provider who follows you in the clinic is not expected to be present at delivery,” Wick says.

In preparation for the big day, ask to see if there are prenatal classes and educational materials available, as this will help you develop a list of your preferred birth plan during your pregnancy.

“You can mention during your first visit that this is something important to you,” Sridhar says.

Birth plan topics you might want to ask about include:

— Pain management options, including medicated and non-medicated

— The doctor’s C-section rate and in what cases one would be performed

— Elective inductions, including when this would happen and what’s involved

— Delayed cord clamping after birth

— Skin-to-skin and/or breastfeeding immediately after birth (including after a C-section)

— The number of support people allowed in the delivery room, including doulas

If this isn’t your first baby, you should still ask the questions, as protocols and personal preferences might have changed.

“It’s valuable to discuss prior experiences, identify aspects that were not ideal and explore how things can be different or improved this time around,” Sridhar says.

10. What Hospital Can I Deliver At?

OB-GYNs have “privileges” at certain hospitals, which means they can deliver babies there. Ideally, your preferred doctor would practice at your preferred hospital, but what if that’s not the case?

In that situation, it’s up to you whether to change doctors or hospitals. How do you choose the best maternity hospital for you?

You can use U.S. News 2026 guide to the Best Hospitals for Maternity Care for rankings of the top hospitals in your area; in addition, we’ve also chosen the best Maternity Care Access Hospitals, which are located in areas which otherwise would have no maternity providers.

We selected the Best Hospitals for Maternity Care based on various factors, including those many new parents look for when choosing where to have a baby, such as:

— C-section rate

— Rate of unexpected complications

— Commitment to breastfeeding

11. How Will Any Medical Issues I Have Affect My Pregnancy?

If you have any minor or major medical conditions, let your doctor know and ask how they may affect your pregnancy or how pregnancy might impact those conditions.

“Additionally, it is important to talk about emotional well-being, including any current or past mental health issues, allergies, previous surgeries and other relevant medical history,” Sridhar says.

12. What Else Do I Need to Know Until My Next Appointment?

Before you leave your doctor’s office, be sure to ask what else you need to know until your next visit.

A good doctor will take the time to listen and respond, particularly if this is the first time you’ve been through this.

“Consulting your provider ensures you receive accurate, individualized feedback to support a healthy pregnancy,” Sridhar says.

It can also help to have a support person with you at the first appointment — such as your partner, family member or friend — to write down what the doctor says, help steady your nerves and make sure you get your questions answered.

Bottom Line

You may not be able to get through all of your questions during your first OB-GYN appointment, and even if you do, there’s going to be more information you’ll need to know. It can feel like drinking from a firehose, but you’ll have plenty more visits to follow-up and ask more questions.

In the meantime, try to embrace the uncertainty. After all, not knowing what’s going to happen is a big part of parenting!

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What to Expect at Your First Prenatal Appointment originally appeared on usnews.com

Update 12/09/25: This story was previously published at an earlier date and has been updated with new information.

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(CNN) — Melissa “Missy” Taylor Ellison’s killing remained a mystery for decades after she was found dead in her bedroom and her 13-month-old daughter was left crying in the living room.For years, Casie Ellison said she felt like she had to shrink herself and bury her feelings about the death of her mother.About 25 years after her mother was killed, those emotions were brought out when Casie realized her own daughter was now the same age she was when her mother died.“It just took me understanding that this is a little Casie,” she said. “I was seeing myself.”On July 8, more than 38 years after her mother’s killing in Jacksonville, Florida, the Clay County Sheriff’s Office received a call from a man wanting to come forward with information on a cold case.Gary Glowacz, a 70-year-old man from Middleburg, Florida, told a Clay County sergeant he wanted to “set things straight” on the death of 20-year-old Melissa Ellison, saying he had hit her with a log in search of money during a burglary, according to his arrest report.Glowacz told Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office Cold Case Unit detectives that in March he came across an article detailing Melissa Ellison’s case and realized he was responsible for her death, according to his arrest report.Glowacz was charged with second-degree murder and armed burglary with assault or battery, according to charging documents. His attorney and the district attorney declined to comment.He’s being held without bond in the Duval County Jail, and his next court appearance is set for Thursday.No arrests were made during the initial investigation in connection with Melissa Ellison’s killing, according to the arrest report.The night of her deathOn December 28, 1987, Melissa Ellison, who was known as Missy Taylor by her family and friends, was found dead in her bedroom by her two roommates, the arrest report says.The medical examiner’s office ruled the manner of death as a homicide and the cause of death to be blunt force trauma to the head at the time of the killing, according to the arrest report.Glowacz told detectives he was looking for money or items to sell to buy drugs, according to the arrest report detailing their interview with him. Glowacz lived only half a mile away from the home Melissa Ellison was living in, according to law enforcement databases. He was arrested on suspicion of a separate burglary the same day she was found dead, the arrest report says.Glowacz, who was 31 at the time, breached the home through a window and made his way into Melissa Ellison’s bedroom, where he found her lying on the bed with her daughter Casie, according to the arrest report. Using a log he found in the house, he struck her one time on the head by her neck, he told detectives. He then picked Casie up, placed her on the couch in the living room and went back into the bedroom to look for money under her mattress.In the arrest report, detectives noted Glowacz recounted details of the crime scene that were not released and were not included in the article he saw earlier this year.When asked why he was confessing to the killing decades later, he said that he was not aware the victim had died until he saw the article about the case.Casie Ellison said she was the first call detectives made that night after they arrested Glowacz.“It felt exactly how I was hoping that it would feel every time I imagined that it would be possible,” Casie Ellison said.Casie Ellison’s aunts Glenda Blandford and Sissy Bennett, who were 17 and 15 respectively at the time of their sister’s death, were the next two calls made.“I knew in my heart, I knew in the back of my mind that this is it. Something’s happened,” Bennett said of the moment she got the phone call.The case was unsolved for decadesBlandford and Bennett recount the heartache their family went through after their sister’s death. For years, their parents would chase any lead they could find, bringing it to the Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office to investigate, but to no avail, they said.“I carried my mother so many times down to the sheriff’s office. I watched everything that she went through, and I had to be the stronger one because … I had to be there for her while my dad continued to work,” Blandford said. “And I watched every disappointment, I watched every ounce of hope.”In 2019, their mother, Catherine Taylor, died not knowing what happened the night her daughter Melissa was killed.A year earlier, a friend of Bennett’s submitted Melissa Ellison’s case to Project: Cold Case, a nonprofit that provides support to families of unsolved homicide victims. The organization created a site for her story with all the information the family had gathered over the years.In January 2026, six months before Glowacz confessed to the killing, Project: Cold Case and Ellison’s family were part of a news conference with First Coast Crime Stoppers.“Someone knows exactly what happened that night. Someone remembers a detail that has never been spoken,” Casie Ellison said at the January news conference. “Someone has lived with this knowledge for nearly four decades. And someone listening to this right now knows that this is about them.”The Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office credited the January news conference for aiding in the investigation, adding that some information that came forward played a role in the recent arrest, it said in July.“While his arrest cannot fill the enormous void left in the hearts of Melissa Ellison’s loved ones, I hope that this arrest is another step in the healing process,” Sheriff T.K. Waters said in July.Remembering MissyAfter nearly 40 years of no answers, this arrest might seem like it would be a weight lifted off the family’s shoulders, but Blandford, Bennett and Casie Ellison say they don’t feel relief yet.Both Blandford and Bennett said there isn’t a day that goes by when they don’t think of their sister. When Blandford moved to the beach five years ago, she thought of Missy, who loved the beach. She’s memorialized in the purple “Reign” Jeep Wrangler Bennett purchased because of Missy’s favorite song, “Purple Rain” by Prince. She lives on through Casie Ellison, who has three children of her own now.The journey toward healing continues for the family, as they try to navigate the new feelings that come with the recent developments. For Casie Ellison, this case has been her whole life.“There was no ‘before the incident’ for me,” Casie Ellison said.For the family, the loss has extended beyond losing Missy. 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